Be True to your self

The truth hurts at all times because we mostly live our life’s lying to ourselves,we are used to being lied to and letting it go but when they tell us the truth we get angry and defensive.The truth hurts because we want to help ,when someone doesn’t want your help and you know they need it ,that hurts but the truth is that they don’t want your help.
Some people hardly sleep because they know the truth about something in their life
Some they hardly go out and have fun or meet other’s because of the truth
Some ,the truth pushes their loved ones away
Some get depression due to the truth
Some fight the truth and wish it was a lie but it is the truth
And there are some who always look happy,go out have fun and enjoy their life, having all the riches of the world but even them have difficulties dealing with the truth.
And there some who know the truth, have accepted and live in truth and I tell you they are living a peaceful life and that is why they will be happy even when you as an outsider see them as struggling.
Some think they know the truth but all they know it’s a lie.
Some might know a secret and think they know the truth but know a lie because the truth is deeper than a secret

The truth will never change it remain true at all times.Acknowledge the truth about yourself or the people surrounding you and you will certainly live a peaceful life.

God is Love

God still loves us nothing has changed he always loved us and he will always do ,it’s his nature to love it I not something he is trying to do or does it because we pray no!HE IS LOVE HIMSELF,if you feel like you are alone or feel isolated from people and everything else ,just give your Life unto the Lord and he shall lift you up and Love you eternally.Covid 19 can change alot of things but it can not change God

TRUE LOVE.”no to gender based violence”

Does true love still exists?I think we have to experience it within ourselves but truly nowa days everyone does not believe in love anymore.As young as I am’ I still do believe in love ‘, I might not know what the future holds but I know how I feel and what I want.Tru love still exists.If you can truly love yourself and value yourself then you can be able to genuinely love someone else for life.We mostly loose hope in love because we put more faith in love than to put much faith in the God we trust ,let’s priorities God in our life and I believe our relationships will be successful .and let us stop Gender based violence, Love and protect our woman.

Who’s Right?

Have you ever been in a argument?,yes you have been into one but the truth is more than one ,infact a multiple of arguments especially in a relationship with your partner.As am sitting on top my bed am asking myself a question that I think is what makes people to argue more often and aggressive while arguing, because both parties in the argument think they are right,but who’s right?. Sometimes it can depend on what the argument is about ,like arguing over political, social, economical or geographical topics but when it comes to arguing about what you both want to do that’s a bit tricky because you both need to come to an agreement and decide what to do.Who’s right?does it matter?most of us we take arguments for granted and think “yeah we always argue and get over it”but the truth is sometimes argument can ruin the relationship because some things we say or things we do when we argue are very hurtful.Yes we can argue a multiple times but one day one of us might feel that she or he is tired then what ?the relationship is ruined over arguing ?There is nothing wrong with having different opinions and having disagreement and end up merging as partners but that can only happen if both of you are humble .The Question remains unanswered .Who’s right?how about we start by both agreeing that we are both wrong then work out a new plan to accomplish whatever that we need to.

In my opinion no one will ever be right if we are not humble and respect each other .It does not matter your gender or your state of finance ,your voice counts in your relationship and both opinion counts.If your opinion is not as good as your partner ,that does not mean failure ,it actually means love and trust because you trust your partner’s opinion and even if you are told that you are wrong it is still fine you haven’t failed ,you are just in a relationship and you can’t be always right.

We can’t avoid arguments at times but let’s observe what we argue about and rephrase from using hurtful words or even having hurtful thoughts.WHO’s RIGHT?.In my relationship 💞we both wrong ,we are only right when we work together.💪♥️

Soul free

Is your soul free?only you know the answer to this question unfortunately your actions can sometimes lie because the soul is within so only self introspection can give you the correct answer. It is very important that we check if our souls are free or not because it really does not help to live with a heavy load on your shoulders which will result to depression and more health issues and worse wrong decision making which can make other people happy but not yourself. Make your own decisions and make sure that your soul is free and I promise you ,you will have a better decision making sense and prosperity will come your way.

Ask yourself

When was the last time you did self introspection?perhaps you never even have done one in your entire life but you always have people to judge and blame, now that it rings in your mind , do you think he/she was the problem?-you wont know because you never had a chance to look at how you talk, walk, laugh, what makes you angry and the way you use your mind.It is very important for one to check himself every now and then because sometimes we push people we love away because of our behaviour or the way we communicate with them.Its highly possible that all this years you have been telling yourself that everyone wronged you only to find out now that you were pushing everyone away.By now maybe you are asking yourself why didnt they tell you and the answer is =they told you but you didnt even hear or notice it because you always saw yourself as the correct one in every equation(situation).
Lucky you because you have this chance to check your present and past mistakes so you can change the future You.We always try to change people but the truth is that there is only one person who can change the way you think and that person is the one who is reading here .Do self introspection often so that you dont often make the same mistake in life.