Ask yourself

When was the last time you did self introspection?perhaps you never even have done one in your entire life but you always have people to judge and blame, now that it rings in your mind , do you think he/she was the problem?-you wont know because you never had a chance to look at how you talk, walk, laugh, what makes you angry and the way you use your mind.It is very important for one to check himself every now and then because sometimes we push people we love away because of our behaviour or the way we communicate with them.Its highly possible that all this years you have been telling yourself that everyone wronged you only to find out now that you were pushing everyone away.By now maybe you are asking yourself why didnt they tell you and the answer is =they told you but you didnt even hear or notice it because you always saw yourself as the correct one in every equation(situation).
Lucky you because you have this chance to check your present and past mistakes so you can change the future You.We always try to change people but the truth is that there is only one person who can change the way you think and that person is the one who is reading here .Do self introspection often so that you dont often make the same mistake in life.

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Improve

There is always a room for improvement. It does not matter what kind of talent or gift you have but there is always a room for improvement.The title improve is based on the level of maturity to us as individuals, we can not be doing things at a very same level as  our previous age or when we were young with no direction.Now its time to level up and change your way of thinking into a more matured and positive  manner.You know which elements you need to fix, fix them before it gets late and believe me when I say it really does get late , but now its your time to level up and install maturity in your mìndset -dont let this opportunity pass you make things right and level up.

Decision making

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Life has a begining and the end of it, we can define the begining of life in our own different ways but at this point  I would like to define the begining of life by decision making. The way to begin your life is by the decision you make, the decision you make will lead you to a certain path and that path has its ending which will be your results you get from the decision you made.Our problem nowa days as the youth and elders is that we make decisions under a pressure from our loved ones or people around us,there is no harm with including the next person in your planning or decision making but there is a problem if you make a decision because of that person this can lead to you taking the wrong path and regreting it later.When it comes to decisions, make sure that you prioritise yourself and by doing that it does not make you selfish but it makes you to have a proper planning that wil benefit you in the future by taking the correct path that links with your heart and your wellbeing. Before one takes a decision let him/her have deep thoughts about the decision his/she’s going to make(this includes the cost and reward of the decision),because not all the decisions we make includes the next person there is a partnership decision making then there is an individual decision making right now lets concentrate on individual decision making, make the right decision and get the right benefit and if you make the wrong decision you will surely get the wrong benefit or you might not even get a benefit.One might ask how do I know that I am making the right decision -asesss yourself as an individual on what makes you happy, prioritise your needs and never make a decision based on feelings only make sure you think aswell before making a decision.
Make the right decision and change your life.

Double minded

Double minded

It is said and been proven that the mind of a person is the most powerful element in the body or in life as a whole but the minds that we have as individuals are different as everyone has his/her own agenda inlife,different goals,visions,missions and perspectives that makes us to have different mindset(how we think).They way you think affects the way you act, this means that the thoughts you have will lead you to certain actions .As everyone has a different mindset you will find it difficult to hear or know that there are people who are double minded, this are the type of people that don’t have a stable mindset that leads to one direction .The word double symbolises 2,due to this symbol we conclude by saying that a double minded person has two different mindsets and different perspectives which lead to results of confusion because a double mind is like going to two different directions simultaneously. When we grow everything is suppose to grow body, mind and soul(reasoning ),so as we have grown we must begin to make decisions that will lead us to our destination. As the actions speak louder than words it means we judge a person  by actions-a double minded person changes the mind now and then ,he/she doesn’t do a stable decision -if you are double minded you intessionally entertain both light and darkness, you can not be righteous for a day and be a child of the world or darkness  the next day ,you can not act like a fool when you are with people whilst you know that you are smart,you cant and must not lead people to the wrong direction intessionally  whilst you know the correct direction, that symbolizes a double mind,same goes with respect if you respect at home then you must be able to respect even in public. The risk of having a double mind is leading people to the wrong direction, taking people to darkness and that can make people to be in danger with their lives while you think you are just playing-all this because of being double minded. The other risk is within yourself when you are double minded you are a danger to yourself  because you will make  rational decisions that will mess up your life ,another danger is growing up with an unstable mentality ,weak leadership skills, poor and negative reasoning ,bear in mind  there are ways that may seem right in your eyes   but they lead to the way of death and darkness, so lets change the way we think as adults ,lets be and act matured so that the next generation may see and get the correct and the right direction of life but if we do continue to be double minded -influencing people to do foolish things wherelse we know the smartest things to do, knowledge is not for storage is for utility/application and having knowledge and not giving it to people that means selfishness .We were given one element to think with let us not double it to negative and positive yes you are suppose at some times to change your mind or rethink decisions but that is a total different with a double mind let us stop being double minded ,know what you want and rethink about it then act,a mind is a powerful element that can build and shape your life but it can also ruin your life ,rethink your decisions.   

NEW BEGINNING

  1. Having  a fresh start is always a good thing to everyone and just the idea of having to walk on a new path that will lead you to your  desired destination its amazing .when we are given a chance in life to begin something we tend to  forget that everything that we get in life needs to be maintained ,we mostly love things at the beginning but when it gets tough or it fades away ,we break the attachment forgetting that we didn’t maintain that  thing from the beginning. Maintaining is like setting up a standard  that wont drop but rather improve than to drop, so basically a new and a fresh start needs proper planning and dedication ,having that will make that new path to be always smooth and even if it happens that it gets rough with proper planning at the beginning of the path you will be having proper equipment to keep it smooth-If the start is fresh maintain it and it will stay fresh. This is my fresh start and I intend to keep it fresh, what is your fresh start?make up a new path that will lead you to your destination.